Sunday, March 22, 2009

Tabula Rasa Part I - People Around Us

I went for dinner at pizza hut with lot of friends of mine 2 days ago, on friday, march 20th, we go for dinner for my passed birthday and announcement for my engangement, i think it's kind of small party, we continue the dinner with singing like crazy peoples in KTV hahaha

Actually i'm not the one who likes to be surrounding by lot of people yet only these friends of mine can make me comfortable with all of things we have been done together. They are my college friends which i think i will remember everlast.

I think everyone has people like "friends", persons that make you reminiscing some old good days, laughing, be an inspiration when you got some stress, someone that may you not seen for long time but it doesn't change when you meet in a chance. People you call friends.
And they must be pour some color in your life or in the way you are thinking, or may be they kept some secret in you. It's good for having friends they are people that you can lean on when you got some troubles, may be they can not help but at least they will hear.

And we also got some people we called teacher, some of us will think they are important persons of our lives, some people not, it's not a sin thinking teachers are not really important, may be they just haven't found people they can admire as a teacher yet.

I respect some teachers from my college years, some from my school days, some from my work life, I learn from them not only the mathematics, physics or other subject that make you headache back then. I learn from their mistakes sometimes, so I will not make same mistakes. From their dedication as some teacher from my college years show me. Their fighting spirits. We learn about life from some people we called teachers.

And of course we have family. People that always by your side (but sometimes there is a case they can be more enemy than an enemy itself). Family may not the closer one for us, but they are the ones who will help you at the first time when bad things happen, and the ones who will be very happy if you reach somethings in your life. Family is not like friends, they are not the star that you can not seen but always there, Family is like a sun that always give it warm to your life.

Do you have enemy? We can be a very nice person, we can smile to everyones in every moments in our life, we can be a saint that want to help others in every chances, but all of that don't guarantee you becoming a person without an enemy. It's not us who decide who is our enemy, it's other people who decide wether they want to be our friends or our enemy. Having enemy is not really bad idea, sometimes we need enemy to make our life funier, we can have our enemy as an topic to have some chit chat with others, we can use our enemy to be a benchmark that we have to accros, wow it's really fun sometimes, the most important is, dont take it too seriously, enemy is not about hatred its only their choices (or yours). Hatred is difference story.... I will make another story about that... later

And there are more People around us, people that we are not realize to be there, people that we don't recognize, people that we hate to be around us, some important, some are not. They are just people around. But don't never ever estimated them. May be sometimes they are will be your friends, and there are lot of simple things they did to make your life easier, may be you dont feel it, because you don't think it is important, or you don't see it, but believe me, we can not life without them. Just believe me, OK !

Actually there is also Lover.... but just let the lover's thing unwritten.... (just an excuse for not make the note hahaha) i will pour it on the blog in other chance =D

Peoples in our life is like tangled wool threads, you can not see it clearly and never can figure out only by seeing, but they are the one who can be a jacket warming your soul according how you sew it. It's depends on you know, how to appreciate them and got somethings from them, it can be knowledge, experience, effort, money, etc. And remember that we give each others in this life, life it's not only about us.....

Let them paint our soul

Tabula Rasa

See Ya !

2 comments:

  1. Hm i like this ...
    the best part is the ENEMy... now i know who is my enemy now, who accidentally at the same time is 'my teacher' ... and my Boss.. hey
    which categories is the BOss things????

    -Qoo-

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  2. kwkwkwwkw I will not write about the BOSS thing for time being.
    for our own good hahahaha.

    it's very hard to write with honest haha

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